...Whatever

Yeah... whatever.... this shit has got to fucking stop.

this is my sole opinion of relationships and when they go bad.

C = girlfriend
A = C's boyfriend
S = C's friend that she's in love with
T = S's ex-girlfriend.
D = One of my best friends
M = D's boyfriend, set up by C
L = Me

to the people involved: you know who you are and can reply as you wish.  I'm angry, pissed off at two of these people and they need to make a fucking decision.

Now, I may not have a lot of experience dealing with relationships, but what is currently happening in amongst my friends is not fucking cool at all.  All of my relationships with guys have ended in disaster each time.  Why?  Because I'm afraid to commit.

This is not the case with C however.  She has been dating A for the past two years.  They have had a bit of a rocky relationship the past six months or so.  Suddenly, T meets S and they get-together to meet and all that.  C wants to go over and meet S because he's a very talented DA artist.  She had now been associating with S for the past month.

She doesn't realize how much that this hurts her boyfriend A.  Sure, he trusts C but that is not the only part of this problem.  A wants C to listen to him when he wants to talk, and she's not.  C says that she doesn't understand.  Now I'm wondering how the hell a person can understand when they don't listen to their significant other?  She also says that A does not listen to her.  Which is not the case.  He has been there, patiently listening to all her problems over the past two years.

C used to write love letters to A saying that he was her knight in shining armour.  This is no longer the case.  She is now saying that S is her knight in shining armour.  This is crazy.  She is in love with two people at the same time.  The thing that is bugging all of my friends involved in this situation is that she is willing to dump A for S.  T did this to D's bf M for another guy.

A looks about ready to kill himself because of all this crap with S.  Point, they are friends, buy C spends too much time with S.  A has reasons as to why he can't come over as often as he likes.

C is being rather heartless about this whole situation.  She rants all the time about her own problems to everyone (including myself) and we try to give her advice.  But when it comes to A, she doesn't listen to him at all.  It hurts him very much.  She has blown him off for S to go out on dates and they flirt all the time.  Consider yourself lucky I'm not saying all of this to your face and that I'm writing it down in a logical manner.  Call me a bitch if you want, I don't care at the moment.  ALL OF THIS NEEDS TO BE SAID.

Anyway, I called C on monday to talk to her and stuff and she was saying about how she was considering dumping A for S.  Let's get two things straight here ladies and gentlemen, C is 16 and S is 20.  20 year old men should not be dating 16 year-old teenagers who are very confused about their feelings.

My final verdict:
1. C needs to work things out with A
2. C needs to listen to A more
3. C needs to stop acting like T did toward M before she blew him out of the relationship water.
4. C needs to think about how lucky she's had it.
5. C should consider herself LUCKY that her friends haven't completely deserted her yet.
6. S needs to back off and stop flirting with C
7. A needs to stop being depressed and look at the brighter side of the picture.

Once again, I have little to no experience in relationships. This is my opinion and I need to say this before I lose my fucking mind:

YOU DO NOT DUMP YOUR BOYFRIEND OF TWO YEARS FOR SOMEONE YOU'VE KNOWN FOR A MONTH!

You don't have to like me, you don't have to love me, but you have to respect my opinions and this is it.  I'm sick of being the bitching post in this relationship as is D.  Talk to each other and not to your friends, you'd be surprised at how much you'd learn from each other.